masculivoid: now gap on the other hand...omg
masculivoid: talk about huge
don't you feel any shame comparing yourself to another man? most of you wouldn't be caught dead picking apart the "love of your life" and publically comparing him to another man, why are you doing the same thing to yourselves? probably because either your own masculinity or what you have between your legs, you don't consider a legitimate part of you. can you say denial?
you're obviously on the outside looking in. to you, masculinity is to be gawked at as some kind of unexplored taboo. not something to be understood and seen as redundent enough to be dismissed with the words, "been there, done that".