gay 'men' are only men on the outside
males who don't gawk at or otherwise go 'ga-ga' for other males won't lose control around men as gay 'men' do, simply because they're straight with themselves as men and don't see anything taboo in masculinity. this is my guess as to just where the term 'straight' came from. it is pretty elemental, for if a male gawks at or fantasizes over another male then he is unarguably excited, and what breeds excitement more than that which is eye-opening? why would a male who's straight with himself as a male regard other males as eye-opening? why would a male who's straight with himself as a male use as many of his six senses as he can, to become more acquainted with masculinity as gay males do?
unenlightenment breeds this kind of idol worship, there's nothing genetic about it.