canmah17: well in country type areas you can't be out because there are a bunch of homophobic people and are afraid of change and things that are different
gays have so many defense mechanisms, i should write a book about 'em! here we have the classic madonna line, "you're the one with the problem," which is really only a variation on pee-wee herman's "i know you are but what am i" line.
it's the classic gay "pride" recourse: lable gay opposers as "afraid of change" or "phobic" in a society afraid of being weak...and suddenly everyone who's anyone's out embracing homosexuality just to stay in the clique.
really, though, when you get down to it...who embraces differences and what does the prefix 'homo' mean?