i just got off the microsoft network and i've come to the conclusion that most people don't know what to do with themselves. just like i hopped on gay o l when i was groping for something else to get me through my semi-charmed kind of life. ten strangers in a room trying to facilitate something reminiscent of a conversation, whoopie. back in 1996-1997 when i first got gay o l and when i wasn't on the prowl in the m4m rooms and actively seeking someone to be the filler of my masculivoids, i was always actively playing '80s name that tune' because actively playing a game with other cyberfolk and even actively seeking someone to be the filler of my masculivoids, was better than twiddling my cyberthumbs and engaging in meaningless banter. you have your 'gay' rooms and your 'freaks' rooms and your 'ricky martin' rooms, but even if you're a gay freak who likes ricky martin (which gay freaks don't like ricky martin, which ricky martin fan isn't a gay freak)...even if you have something in common with the people in the room, without a set activity you're just twiddling your thumbs. without a set activity, you're a clueless mutherfucker...waiting, just waiting for something to cling to. holy toledo, get a life and get active!
get a hobby. fly to hobby. quit filling your lives with fillers, lose your voids and make your life something to remember.