this guy is looking for a "hero". what do you think is holding him back from being his own hero? that's what i wondered when i saw him. my complex being that i am not as big as i'd like to be, i can't see what complex he'd have to make him attracted to men. he's man enough to be his man, at least in my eyes...because he's man enough to be my man. he belongs with the best of 'em, physically anyway. wonder what he sees in men that's taboo and different enough to warrant an attraction. things that make you go, "hmm..."