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UNDERSTANDING HOMOPHOBIA

dear sir or vagina:

here are some slogans seen online regarding the underlying cause of gay-bashing:

1) "homophobic? maybe you're gay"
2) "homophobic? maybe you're insecure with your own homosexuality"
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here are some slogans i came up with, which also hint at the underlying reasons gays are ridiculed:

1) "man-worshipper? maybe opposites attract"
2) "man-worshipper? maybe you're insecure within yourself as a legitimate man"
3) "man-worshipper? maybe you feel as 'not worthy'in the presence of men as wayne & garth felt in the presence of madonna"
4) "masculinity-worshipper? maybe you feel an absence of masculine fulfillment or achievement in your life"
5) "masculinity-worshipper? maybe your sense of masculine gender-identity is 'all shot to shit' and you seek refuge"
6) "masculinity-worshipper? maybe you feel slighted in the presence of that perfect specimen of manhood"
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i seriously doubt that the pro-gay bigots believe that anyone is "born with" their negative opinions of homosexuality, i know for a fact that they believe people can change their minds regarding negative opinions of homosexuality, yet they all seem to believe that gay "men" (and i use that term loosely when referring to gays) were "born with" ultra-positive opinions of masculinity which are unchangeable and unable to be manipulated. the pro-gay bigots will always tolerate a change of mind when it's a matter of opinion, but they want to outlaw the change of heart when it's a matter of a fundamental change of mind that's granted by, say, an ex-gay therapist.

plainly speaking, homosexuality is belittled, mocked and ridiculed because it is a self-disrespecting gender-identity issue as much as chastity bono is. people who want to discover and disrobe men have not fully discovered masculinity within themselves, they cannot look at men and then simply look away in acceptance - they have to stare and scrutinize because they're cross-eyed curious of the gender which has not been internalized or otherwise identified and justified within themselves. i cannot simply look away in acceptance of football-heros like matthew muchnok, josh lane, tim tebow or jeb blazevich - i have to gawk because i will always consider myself a lesser man in the presence of these supermen. it is shameful that i regard these men as perfect, it is a self-esteem issue that i regard myself as a boy when in the presence of these men, and this is the reason why gay "men" are ridiculed...they bring it upon themselves by being the masculine insufficiencies that their very praise of masculinity makes themselves out to be.

"homophobic? maybe you're gay"
"not gay-affirming? maybe you're head's on straight"

mr. dylan terreri, i
dr. sheldon cooper, ii
www.godhatespride.com
www.homosexualityiswrong.com
www.masculivoids.com
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